What it means to be kind and how to be kind to yourself
Several people are taught from a young age that being kind is a selfless act, letting yourself be killed over and over again to show how loving you are and how much you have to give.
But what happens when you don't have more to give? When you're exhausted? Tired? Then what?
How comes those same people never tell you loving yourself first is the base of all kindness and love you can show.
If you are constantly putting everyone and everything first, not thinking about yourself too then that's not kindness, thats foolishness.
Think about a relationship, it should go both ways, right? Thats why when making decisions show some sincerity and care to yourself too. It doesn't make you "evil", "insincere" and "indifferent", it just means you know how to say NO, you know what's good for you and most importantly, you understand your value.
Being Kind, infact being loving is showing yourself and everyone respect, sincerity and love. But by first showing yourself, you can't always sacrifice yourself for the world. After all, after you've killed yourself, how many people will actually remember to take care of you. Everyone has their lives and their problems to deal with so remember you are only you, no duplicate or replica, no alternative, only one life and again YOURSELF. So do we'll to remember yourself in all your decisions and priorities.
I'm not asking you to neglect others or don't care, I'm saying that in everything you do, remember yourself. Don't just think about how others will feel in a situation but you too!
YOU FIRST!
----- Nabila (Queen Beela)
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